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In Mexico, Strangers Are Friends You Haven't Met Yet

By David Feldt July 27, 2026
Mexican culture Why Mexico Smiles
In Mexico, Strangers Are Friends You Haven't Met Yet

"México es encontrar un motivo para hacer comunidad, incluso entre desconocidos."

Finding a reason to build community, even with strangers.

This surprised me more than anything.

I've watched complete strangers start talking in an OXXO line. At football games. Waiting for tacos. Even because it suddenly started raining.

In many countries strangers avoid eye contact.

In Mexico, strangers are simply friends you haven't met yet.

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