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My Uber ran out of gas on the way to Mexican immigration. Somehow, this became a spiritual lesson.

By David Feldt September 15, 2026
Mexican culture
My Uber ran out of gas on the way to Mexican immigration. Somehow, this became a spiritual lesson.

In Mérida, Uber has always been flawless for me.

Yesterday, Mexico said:

“Sí, pero... let’s make this interesting.”

The driver arrived, stopped, then drove away before I could get in.

I texted him via the Uber app.

He said he didn’t see me.

Which was impressive, because I was standing exactly where the app told me to stand, doing the universal immigrant pose of mild panic while staring at my phone.

A minute later, he came back.

I got in.

The ride was supposed to take 30 minutes.

We started chatting about the weather, because in Mérida, weather is not small talk. It is a shared survival strategy.

Then he casually said:

He had run out of gas.

Not with panic.

Not with shame.

Just as useful information.

And because Mexico enjoys writing better plots than Netflix, we coasted into a Pemex that was somehow exactly where we needed it to be.

Then his credit card didn’t work.

Of course it didn’t.

So now my Uber ride had become a liquidity crisis.

The Pemex attendant joined the conversation.

The driver started hunting for efectivo.

Coins in the glove box.

Coins on the floor.

Coins from mysterious archaeological zones inside the car.

Eventually, he scraped together 30 pesos.

Not a full tank.

Not a mobility strategy.

Thirty pesos.

Enough to keep the story moving.

And off we went.

More conversation.

More jokes.

More laughter.

No apology.

No corporate guilt.

No “I deeply regret the inconvenience.”

Just two people continuing the ride as if emergency pocket-change gasoline was a normal transportation feature.

And here’s the strange part:

I wasn’t angry.

I was late for an immigration appointment, which is not usually where one goes to explore inner peace, and somehow I was laughing in an Uber rescued by loose change.

When I finally arrived at INM, after my appointment time, they told me:

Their systems were down.

All appointments were delayed.

Of course they were.

Mexico had been building the plot twist the entire time.

Three hours later, I got everything done and went about my day.

Years ago, this would have ruined me.

The driver left without me.

The car ran out of gas.

The card didn’t work.

The appointment time passed.

The government system was down.

That is a full bingo card of stress.

But in Mexico, somehow, it became a story.

Because Mexico has a way of softening the disaster.

It turns inconvenience into conversation.

Delay into humor.

Stress into resignation.

And sometimes resignation into joy.

In the U.S., when something goes wrong, people often look for someone to blame.

In Mexico, people often look for a way to keep the moment human.

Yesterday I learned that being late in Mexico is sometimes not a failure.

Sometimes it is just the universe saying:

“Tranquilo. The system is down anyway.”

Mexico, decoded.

One almost-empty Uber at a time.

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